I know I am!
Before April started, I was aware that something in our family was not quite right.
The thought continued to nag at me that SOMETHING needed to change.
I focused on a few things here and there.
But to no avail.
Here was the problem.
Our family unity felt shaken. Felt adrift. Felt...gone.
It felt like we all lived in the same house yet...
where was everybody?
We were not connecting, and you know what?
It felt horrible, WRONG.
After much thought and prayer, here is the answer that came to me.
NO MEDIA MONTH!
When a friend told me about this, an instant feeling of confirmation filled me!
I did not know exactly how this could help us, but I FELT it would.
So for the month of April we decided on a few things:
1. No video games at all.
2. No small hand held electronic games like a DS or Leapster.
3. No computer time besides homework for the kids.
4. Limited adult computer use - no Craig's List and Ebay browsing.
5. No television. Family owned DVD's are allowed if okay'd by mom & dad, watched sparingly.
(no tv includes no watching tennis for mom & dad either!)
6. Daughter's cell phone only given to her when activity, no free reign on texting.
7. ipods are okay (we only download music to them).
So we suggested this to the kids, and surprisingly they were all on board.
The first 3 days were full of this...
"I'm bored". "There's nothing to do".
But then it was like magic.
MAGIC I tell you!
The spirit of love & peace and family unity made a HUGE comeback.
It feels good.
It feels RIGHT.
Here are a few of the things we didn't even know we were missing:
Family tickle fights
Deep, serious conversations
Lighthearted goofy conversations
sit down family dinners
public library and book reading
one on one outings with kids
dirt bike riding
oh and nights full of this kind of thing...
...pantyhose on the head night
(inspired by a card from my dear friend Karen).
Seriously. Who would have thought that those distractions could have been so...well...
I didn't even realize what was happening to us.
It was sneaky!
We all agree that this is SO MUCH better.
No Media Month will be over at the end of April.
But I promise you...there will be new rules.
There has to be.
Because for OUR family
this is WAY too good a change.